A new month also means New events, contests and offers for my . . . → Read More: Hello Febuary `09]]>

Hello dear readers! If you know me at all, you know I love the start of a new month! It’s like a good Spring Cleaning and another chance to bring my personal methods of submissive Training to a new crop of sluts.

A new month also means New events, contests and offers for my cherished gents, sluts and genderbenders. Bookmark Fem Domain & Mistress Madness to keep up with all the FREE Fun happenings at The LDW Group.

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After the first grunts of man became language and humans banded together, our history, culture, and traditions have been passed down though the spoken word. Like musicians who sang of great glories, skilled and animated Storytellers were an iatrical part of tribes and families, since time began.

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No you slut, I wasn’t talking about your dick.

Stroke. Often a command – but for my purposes today – it means reputation and character. I like stroke. I like stroke better than money. Stroke gets me excited and makes my juices flow.

Stroke is Power.

Why am I telling you this?

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No you slut, I wasn’t talking about your dick.

Stroke. Often a command – but for my purposes today – it means reputation and character. I like stroke. I like stroke better than money. Stroke gets me excited and makes my juices flow.

Stroke is Power.

Why am I telling you this?

Oh dear ones – I’m fairly tingling tonight – on a cloud of stroke. Pride. When one of Mine is showered with compliments – I plop another glob of Stroke on the pile.

Know what else?

All that sroke, it extraplates and throws off  a delightful treat for the bottom. Attention, the good kind. The CARROT. The Yummies. The Kinky Control.

Yes, my slut did me Proud and he is reaping the benefits. Snuggled in his bed – aching and tingling from a full day of having his manhood manipulated and used – just because he was the impious of a nice chunk of stroke.

What about you? What have you done lately to be an object of Pride to the One You Adore?

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Oh there’s so many kinds of temperature play,that can be very sensual. From the mild practice of warming a metal spatula in water – to the more intense use of candle wax – heat . . . → Read More: Oh Baby It Is Cold Outside]]>

Oh yes – freezing cold on the outside, but what about inside? Every play with ICE? How about FIRE? Both?

Oh there’s so many kinds of temperature play,that can be very sensual. From the mild practice of warming a metal spatula in water – to the more intense use of candle wax – heat can be a great addition to your bedroom repertoire.  I’ve always been a fan of wax play, it’s cheap, easy to keep on hand, and EVERYONE has a few candles around the house.

Before you grab the first meltable you find, here are some  basic guidelines.

• Never use pure beeswax.
• Start with white, they burn cooler.
• Check if your partner is allergic to dyes or perfumes before you begin your artwork in color.
• Holding the wax further away from the body, will be a less intense heat.
• If  using a crock pot, stir often and stirr well, right befrore use.
• A light coat of mineral oil will make removal easier.
• Use a sharp knife or credit card to remove hardened wax.

Cold play can be introduced and included in wax/heat play. Alternating the sensations of hot to cold or cold to hot, adds a wonderful dimension. Storing a few lengths of ball chain, a favorite dildo or a metal serving spoon in the freezer, gives you a spur of the moment love prop to surprise your partner with.

Into anal play? Ooo darlin’!

• Grab a condom.
• Fill it w/ water.
• Tie off the top – just like a balloon.
• Toss it in the freezer.

Make a dozen,  wave your slut ass in the air, and it won’t just be the cocktails, that are on ice.

Turn The Heat Up w/ MILF Mistress Viv – 800-356-6169

Laughter exercises the lungs and circulatory system . . . → Read More: Laughter and Health and Sex and Pain. Oh My!]]>

We should all know the benefits of daily exercise to keep or improve our health, but not enough of us know – that some of same positive results can be gained, with laughter. Author Nicky Van Valkenburgh points out her Ezine article Laughter is Good for You  

Laughter exercises the lungs and circulatory system and increases the amount of oxygen in the blood. Laughter also:

 Reduces muscle tension

 Boosts levels of endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers

 Reduces levels of hormones and petrochemicals

 Stabilizes blood pressure

 Increases heart rate

 Provides a natural boost to the immune system

 The additional release of stress that builds up throughout our days, makes laughter a wonderful supplement for improved heath.

 What stuck me as I researched the topic, were the similarities between the biology of laughter and sexual release. Ranging back in my memories for the most memorable scenes I presented in public, or private, the ones that come to mind first, seem to be teamed with pain and laughter.

 One public spanking of a tasty French Canadian male submissive, better known as a Top, brings back a scene never to be forgotten by participants or audience, and is told over again at our social gatherings. Those who know me best, are never shocked at the power I bring to a scene, however – new visitors to the large dungeon facility have trouble connecting the funny and welcoming mature Fem Dom, to the Woman in tight leather gloves – warming up the prettiest ass ever to cross the border.

 Placing layer after layer of sensation and pain slowly and surly, changing up tools and building towards a crescendo – the world disappears. There are only two dancing, the bottom lost in my voice – pushing him to stay in the moment – to move and beg for more with both his intoxicating French mumbling and reddened bum.

Stepping back to watch his bottom undulate and hump, I heard the low buzz of the growing crowd; noises of titillation and excitement were starting to tickle my funny bone. High on Top Space, I knew it was time to wrap it up, with something memorable.

 As I grabbed his balls from underneath him and hitched his ass up high in the air, I reached out my free hand got a firm grip on the Hell Paddle, and spun it on its end, letting it spin free, before grasping it tightly again.

The almost unison gasp of the audience, now 3 deep when I two handed the oak paddle and swung it in the air, was just the reaction I had hoped for. As air rushed in and around the two carved holes – the whistle combined with my laughter, set all but the poor bottom to tittering.

Placing a kiss on each of the trembling submissive’s hot cheeks, I laid the Punishment Paddle under his sweating face and whispered in his ear, laughing- now cum. As he grunted out his mess, each and every person was applauding, while peels of laughter enveloped me – I wallowed in the giving and taking of the joys of great sexual entertainment.

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Aww I know ya’ll . . . → Read More: More Fun Than You Can Shake A Stick At]]>

Hello dear readers!
What a wild morning your MILF Mistress had today! Round about 2 this morning, just as I was going to tuck it in for the day – one of my favorite losers gave me a call. Like Mel Tillis would say – it’s all about the T-t-t-t-timing.

Aww I know ya’ll don’t usually hear me call anyone a looser – you know that I believe that noone is truly worthless – they can always stand as a bad example. However, some males just beg for the title, and the tasty Miss Tara and I have named him – mister no balls.

The No Balls should be obvious – and the mister is because he’s an ole dude. Hey! Respect where respect is due – he did his time in a fox hole.

Yeah yeah pot calling the kettle black – but you know men when they hit that spot in life, when the mind says go go go – and the dick says – maybe maybe maybe. Eh? Add in a few cocktails and the humilation just extraplates. Tipsy and horny, his hair soaking wet from a dunking in the sink, my yet unnamed loser, was groaning in such delighful pain - I just had to share this perfect example of a weak man.

Now now, don’t go thinking that weak = stupid.

Stupid is no fun to play with- but a weak willed ole dude who can also carry on a convesation while having his balls bashed, is worthy of not just my attention, but one that should be shown off.

Enter The Spank Mistress!

 Oh yes! A perfect choice for a 2 call w/ a weak male who needed the balance on his credit card depreciated for his betterment, and our amusement. As a practical example of what a weak willed male can expect from This Fem Dom when he begs to be ruined – both my partner in kink, Ms Tara and our lovely dispatcher were gifted with monitary tributes – that equaled what he gave to his girlfriend that week – just for the privlage of having his tiny dick tortured, and his balls busted by 2 Superior Women.

 Oh the inhumanity!

He was quivering with excitement way before the Best Ball Buster around, our sexy Miss Tara,  was on the line.

I do hope, she will tell – The Rest Of The Story.

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I want . . . → Read More: Weekend Wrap Up 6-29]]>

It was a busy and FUn weekend over here at the Casa De Kink. Special house guests and 2 days of playtime, has everyone draggin’ ass today. Well, everyone but your Miss Viv! Not having to lift a finger, except to point,  I am well rested and in a very sunny mood.

I want to thank all my lovely callers I’ve had the past few days. Sissys, strokers, cam slut show-offs and those whorish cumdumpters, kept me very  busy - a few times I was hysterically laughing – listening to the suffering on the other end of the phone.  Such a nice variety – to keep my imagination going, full steam.

Were you at the PJ Party Saturday night over at the Community Kink Chat Rooms? It was PACKED when I dropped in before retiring for the day. More than 12 sexy Mistresses and 20 guests were there at the top of the hour and everyone was ready to get the games started. Up for grabs were multi Mistress calls and lots of gifts, but sadly I faded quickly after a full day of company and had to just drop off my prize offering and hit the rack.

I heard tell lovely rachel won the collection of bath luxuries, that will be hand picked by yours truly, and I’m looking foward to shopping with just her in mind.  I do hope she feels ever so femme, while soaking away.

Are you a budding femme fatale searching for those girl secrets to a more beautiful you? Why not join in on the dissusions at our Community Kink Space and share your tips and tricks, for a more beautiful you.

From Ms Corrine’s blog, Kinky Story Time

Pass the Penis is a fun . . . → Read More: Pass That Penis]]>

One of Miss Viv’s favorite play Mistresses, Empress Corrine posted about the fun LDW game, Pass The Penis. She and I have put our twisted minds together, and are plotting evil ways to amuse ourselfs, passing your junk, back and forth.

From Ms Corrine’s blog, Kinky Story Time

Pass the Penis is a fun game! Especially for those of you into Small Penis, and public humiliation, or anything else that might float your boat; dealing with your male parts.

We play a game where you are passed around to different ladies throughout the night, and get instructions from dispatch or other Mistresses. What a great lot of fun. I think the funnest would be two girl pass the penis, you get to call me or one of the other ladies, and we pull in one or more friends. Two or more cock teases per session. Who knows if you’re into heavy humiliation maybe I’ll have you call dispatch and oink? Perhaps you’d like to tell dispatch all about what you’d like to do.

I’d love to play pass the penis with you. Or multiplayer Pass The Penis. Lots of fun for everyone. Are you brave enough to play Pass the Penis? http://www.passthepenis.com

Who . . . → Read More: Calling All Sluts!]]>

Woo hoo  sissy boys and sluts! It’s play time at the Casa de Kinky!  Don’t let this small window of opportunity pass you by, and call while miss pink and I are in the MOOD to use you.  Feeling femmie today?  Well fire up your cam, we’d love to see a fashion show.

Who knows ..  if YOU are slutty enough, to get our parts tingling – we’ll let you listen in, when we tag team ole roy’s ass, with a variety of strap-ons.

HURRY HURRY! Before the brunch guests arrive at 11 eastern. 

 Start Your Hump Day Off Right!

Overview: **Not intended for audiences under the age of 18.** Intelligent and mature discussion on a variety of topics including but not limited to sexuality, relationships, erotica, pop culture, BDSM, current events.

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An interview with Miss Vivian, Lifestyle Mistress & Mentor on Talk Shoe. 03/15/2008 10:00 PM EDT

Overview: **Not intended for audiences under the age of 18.** Intelligent and mature discussion on a variety of topics including but not limited to sexuality, relationships, erotica, pop culture, BDSM, current events.

Biography: Miz Ava is a social work grad student with a somewhat sadistic sense of humor and an affinity for all things kink. Ms Cecilia is a certified hypnotherapist with a quirky wit and ability to entrance the masses with only a few words. Put these two charming ladies together and you get Vox Erotic Radio.

Our Topic of the Day will be the art of CBT!