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You Don’t Have To Be Bad To Get A Good Spanking

Vivian — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 11:23:26 +0000

Good Morning Dear Readers! Grab someone you Love -and have at it – cause it’s Its Hump Day! Are you all by your lonesome today? Go on and Snatch a pillow and get to bumpin’ and warm up that dick for Mistress.

Audio Introduction

In The Mood To Use

Yes indeed gents – your gyrations are just the start of our fun. You see I woke up all happy and frisky today and in a mood to spank some ass. Oh, don’t be scared, you are far from the 1^st man, to offer up his bottom and lay across my lap. After all, I did say spanking, not beating.

The Nuances of Spanking

The Spanking Lifestyle has changed over the past 20 years – but I remember a time when our BDSM group shared party space with an out of town Spanking Club with their own set of play rules – many that were different from ours.

As with most well-run events, the House Rules were presented by both groups and I learned that for the Spankers, striking tools were not permitted. No crops, no paddles, only hands and soft sensation toys. Masters were dressed in suits or business casual and the ladies all looked ready for a night out on the town.

We found them a fun group to watch, playing pass the naughty girl around and sending notes to each other with kinky instructions. No nipple clamps, no full nudity, no heavy bondage, but it didn’t matter, the moaning and sounds of flesh striking flesh was titillating.

Now, you can’t really tell the Spankers from the D/s players

Pulling Out The Big Guns

As fun as it was to experience another kind of kink, this ole Fem Dom LOVES her sex toys. Anyway, my hands get tender so fast, but they are still – by far – my favorite tools for the warm up.

The warm up is So Important. Spending the time to slowing and gradually bring the blood up to the surface, not only makes it the prettiest pink, but also keeps the bottom from becoming leathery in the future.

As soon as I see that rosy glow, I like to start adding in some of my favorite things. The parachute cord mini flogger has a short sharp bite when flicked, but can also make the subject shiver when dragged across the tender sweet spots. A springy ruler, hard wooden spoon and then maybe the ping pong paddle, or quirt.

Oh the possibilities are endless, when you give over your sweet ass – to please your Mistress.

MILF Mistress Catches You Red-Handed

Vivian — Sat, 02 Apr 2011 02:31:50 +0000

Would you believe it dear ones? I step out to run an errand today, leaving the houseboy in charge and what do I come back to?

A Panty Pilferer! Caught Red Handed

Old Mistress sees you slut! Don’t even try to hide it, you’ve been caught red-handed and the blush creeping up your neck proves it.

Take those hands from behind you back and show me what you have.

Hesitation?

That will cost you slut, now show me.

Gasp!

Whose panties are those?

Your Mistress knows they aren’t hers, nor are they any pair a slut like you are allowed.

Fess up, who’s hamper have you been pilfering?

Yes, you best keep those eyes down, you naughty thing, while Mistress makes them into a pretty hat for you.

The Panty Boy Gets His Punishment

Yes, just the right touch for the dinner party tonight.

Not only something to amuse our kinky guests, but also remind you of your error and keep you mind on your duties party slut.

Now sit there in the corner and think about how humiliating it will be, when the doorbell rings tonight and you have to answer it, wearing two pairs of panties and lovely blue apron.

The Humilation Continues

Of course there will be laughing, and no doubt some questions.

To make the evening move smoothly, you will reply to any queries about your panty bonnet –

The man slut is learning the errors of his ways.

Any further questions will be directed to your Mistress.

Shoo! Off with you, till you are called. Do not speak unless spoken to, and no wiggling.

Distracting your Mistress as she works with fidgeting, will gain you 20 with attitude – in my swing.

What’s the matter precious? You wish to beg forgiveness? Your salvation is just a phone call away.

Did you memorize it as instructed?

MILF Mistress Welcomes 2011

Vivian — Sat, 01 Jan 2011 14:59:47 +0000

Good Morning dear readers! Your Old Miss Viv had quite a night! Still a littld foggy from too much champage, there’s folks sleeping all over my house, and it makes me Very happy! As I tip toe around this morning I’m filled with love for my Friends who are Family and I’m counting my blessings, one by one.



Other things may change us, but we start and end with family.: Anthony Brandt

Searching For The One Master

Vivian — Mon, 27 Dec 2010 14:07:28 +0000

Good Morning Dear Ones! It’s been NUTs around here … in a good way. A lovely quiet Christmas, and now it’s time to start planning for a kinky party for New Year’s Eve! While I’m busy puttering, I thought I’d share a story from one of my wana be gay boys, when he went out searching for The One who could Master him. Tired of fighting his desire to suck cock, he went on a journey to test his resolve and sexuality.

On The Hunt For a BDSM Master

I was in my early twenties at the time of this story. I was living in a large city, and had made some contacts in the BDSM world, since that scene really fascinated me. I was sure at that time in my life that I would meet the man who was capable of doing what I felt I needed to be done in order for me to explore my sexuality fully. I sought this person in every bar I went to, and always had an eye out for him on the street. I had even come up with a name for him, the ‘One’. The One who would take me to places I wanted to go.

I have since found that this sort of journey occurs only within a person, and that we are the only people capable of taking ourselves truly anywhere. But in those days I continued the search, and met with many discouraging encounters for my efforts. As with so many cases of this kind, it was only when I had stopped the hunt and was preoccupied with the visit of a friend from out of town that I met someone who I thought would fill the requirements I had set out.

He was in his late thirties, and was pretty good looking. His name was Ken, and he was of average height, had a small moustache which he kept pretty neatly trimmed, and he was wearing denim jeans and a leather jacket. I was in a local bar, standing on the upper deck, as it were, which looked out over the narrow dance floor. I had watched from this vantage point the intimate details of the cruising that my friend visiting was up to with a guy he thought was hot, down below on the main floor.

The Need for Cock

After a while they decided to leave together, and my friend looked up at smiled at me as he left. I smiled back, and cast my eyes around the place to see what offered for me. Right there beside me was Ken, and without missing a beat as soon as my eyes focused on him, he told me he liked my shirt. I was wearing a t-shirt I had made which had a hammer and sickle on the front of it. We talked about that for while, and then he bought me some beer, and after a while, invited me back to his place.

We took a cab from the rank in front of the bar, as it was near closing time, and it sped us across town to where he lived. It was a modest concrete apartment, and Ken lived on the fourteenth floor in a suite with a great view. The place was done in dark velour upholstered furniture, and had blue walls with lights sitting on the floor behind chairs and etc providing a quiet illumination.

Ken poured me a drink, some scotch, and we talked for a bit more. Even though I was a seasoned drinker in those days, my head began to reel at the effects of the liquors we had consumed, or perhaps it was their combination. There was an unspoken topic between us, and it took another round of drinks before Ken started talking about it. He asked me if I was looking for a master, and I told him I was. I didn’t know how he could have known that, and it made a great impression on me. He spoke of his own experiences as a master, and the slaves he had owned at one point or another.

Setting Your Hard Limits

After we had talked for a bit, and it was established that I had little or no experience in BDSM, he told me that it would be better if I were to take off my clothes. I did so, and then sat down again. He told me to stand, and I rose a bit unsteadily. He told me to bend over, and then I felt his breath hot on my ass. He started to lick my ass, and this went on for some time. I was right into it, and then when he wanted to go to the bedroom I was into that as well.

We went in and lay on the bed, and then he played with my ass for a while. He told me in a soft voice that if things worked out with him, I could sleep at the foot of his bed, and that I wouldn’t ever be allowed to wear clothing in the house. His fingers were never out of my ass for very long, and he fucked me several times, holding my legs in the air and looking into my face as he told me other things he would do to me. We lay there for a while with his cock up my ass, and he pushed it in and out a couple of times just to remind me it was there. It felt really good.

END OF PART ONE

Mistress Gets You In The Loop

Vivian — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 00:13:16 +0000

Phew! Things are Popping around Mistress Land! So I figured it was time to get every one’s ducks in a row – in no particular order.

Our Head Mistress Ally has been burning the midnight oil working on a new LDW blog - The Daily Cock. Easy to find - right there on all the navigation bars, where you’ll find:

Mistress Q& A’s – Ally probes the minds of The Mistresses
Cock Control Reviews – Our caller’s reviews – the good – the fabulous – and even the not so hot. Big Hugs for the kind words from my callers.
Pre-Call Questionnaire – Are you having a heck of a time choosing from the LDW roster – now you can let The Phone Madame play Yenta, and match you up.
LDW Company- Policies – Links – Terms

What’s NEW @ LDW’s Adult Social Network – The Empire?

Hotter then “Hell”oween Spooktacular

Perverted Pumpkin Contest-
12 hours of Cock Radio
Chat Live & Claim Your 10 min FREE Call
Morphin’ Mistresses

Assignments For Vivian EE Group Open

Sissyville Assignment Favorite Fashion Movies
Woman of the Year Review

The Clip Club

Mistress Commands you to search out the most unique clips.
Post your pics & earn Miss Viv’s Personlized Love Bites pins.

Miss Viv’s UpDates

May I Cum – Ode To A Penis
Domination Boot Camp The Dark Party

There you go dear ones! A bit of catch up before the weekend starts to Rock!

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The Starter Cock

Vivian — Sun, 03 Oct 2010 20:35:53 +0000

Good evening dear readers! Can you believe it’s October, already? I know it’s just flown by! This month started just right when a new caller piqued my interest with the story of his sexual life that brought back sweet memories of my own D/s beginnings.

For those of you who don’t know my history, I was Trained in the Old School ways, when everyone started on the bottom, and worked their way UP. What I found so fascinating about my new caller is how his college experiences, and the people who molded him, are still a vibrant and kinky part of his life.

He began his journey as a freshman in college, where his good looks and quiet manner was noticed by his Professor. He could hardly believe his good fortune that such a sexy woman would take an interest in him. Little did he know her light flirtation would change his future and make him into a life-long submissive slut.

He was the perfect candidate to be brought into the secret circle of professors who had for many years selected the cream of the college crop to join in their sexual games. Slowly, they initiated him, tempting him with young and beautiful co-eds, who were the most popular on campus until he was hooked.

Just like me when I was the newest bottom in the group, it wasn’t long before he was servicing both men and women at clandestine gatherings. With his youthful libido and smallish dick, he was a perfect fit to be used as the Starter Cock. Ready to serve the group’s needs at a moment’s notice, they used him as a servant, play thing and – his all time favorite, party cum-dumpster.

Most people, who question their sexuality, try to range back and find the moment when their proclivities were wired into their brains. When they look inward and ask…

Why

It is that thing, that moment that my caller and I have in common, we both can point to that instant when our natures were forged, and we accepted – it’s just how we are

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BDSM Trainer Puts The Houseboy Through His Paces

Vivian — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 02:01:16 +0000

Good Evening Cuppy Cakes! I had a wonderful surprise today! One of the young men who came to me for Houseboy Training a few years back was released from the Air Force this week, and came a calling to his Mistress for a visit. Oh my dear ones .. what the Service has done for his body – was jaw dropping.

He went right to his knees as he crossed my threshold, and waited silently with his hands clasped behind his neck. So PROUD was your Miss Viv – my eyes welled up when I kissed his sweet head and commanded him to give me 50 diamonds.

Laughing he dropped into position, knocked out 50 push-ups and never broke a sweat. What a great start to an unexpected pleasure, old Friend rolling around on the floor like kids, so happy that the last goodbye -wasn’t the last one at all.

We fell into the easy and familiar patterns of our past. He, so eager to experience a day with his Former Fem Dom- he offered to make lunch – or any other “little thing needs doing”. Quick as a NY minute, roy handed him his Honey Do List, and offered him a beer.

Splendid all I can say. Simply Splendid to have the Services of such a tasty piece of eye-candy, scuttling around this afternoon – while I read and relaxed and plotted my playtime plans for him. I was sad to wave him off – but good boy that he is, he was heading for his Momma’s Home.

Good thing too! Poor Miss Viv was POOPED and just had to nap.

I’m back now, well-rested – still all buzzy from the afternoon’s fun and taking your sweet and nasty phone sex calls for a few more hours tonight.

Don’t forget it’s Temptation Tuesday!

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Your Favorite Fem Dom Catches Up

Vivian — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 15:52:09 +0000

Hello dear readers! It has been a long time since I’ve posted here so I’m going to catch you up on what’s happening around The Casa de Kinky! I have to admit, I’ve been feeling a little bit lazy lately – and spending lots of time in my garden and visiting with friends and enjoying the birdies.

Of course I’ve been Very happy with all the new phone sex callers this month! So many delightful submissive males searching for the right path to happiness have found their way to a serious Mature Lifestyle Mistress. It’s also a great boon to my ego that all these new fellows have mentioned how enamored they are with my long and lucious legs! Thank you boys, you make an ole gal feel young again.

Another great part of being an erotic telephone entertainer is a most wonderful side effect I call The Damp Pantie Effect. Tasty men, both young and not so young whispering dirty things in my headset all day long is bound to have that special effect on me. Sprinkle in some extra fine cam shows by my sexy slut pets, and I stay in a perpetual state of horny. Life my Friends, is pretty dang good!

So? What up with y’all? Have you checked out our new adult social network yet? It is growing so fast! Polls, blogs, pictures, groups and so much more! You can even win FREE Phone Sex Calls with your participaction.

Stop on by & say Howdy why doncha?

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Lifestyle Mistress Gets Her Ducks In a Row

Vivian — Wed, 02 Jun 2010 17:00:48 +0000

Good Afternoon dear ones! Phew what a busy day! I’d bet most everyone, no matter what industry- also spends the 1st few days of a new month, getting the ole ducks in a row. For a Lifestyle Mistress who is the head of household, there’s ever more planning, to keep our little BDSM Family running smooth.

With Summer here I’ve had to adjust my schedule and made some hard decisions about what work to focus on- for the rest of this season. I polled the Manipulated Manhood E-Group and asked my fans what they would enjoy participating in the most and I will be using that information to determine what to get busy on.

Sadly, I’m putting The Hump Day Radio Show on the blocks for now, but will continue the Talk Shoe Shows though August – and maybe beyond. This will allow me more time to enjoy my fellow Mistresses’ events, and have time to take care of my Family and have some Kinky FUN.

So far on the Top of my list, is the NEW Social Network Enchantrix Empire where you can find all of your lovely LDW Erotic Phone Sex Entertainers and many of our kinky chat friends.

Join Today & Tell Them Mistress Vivian Watson sent you!

Let’s Talk About Anal Training

Vivian — Tue, 04 May 2010 19:11:02 +0000

There’s nothing this Mature Fem Dom likes better than a new playmate that is curious about anal play. To be given the control over breaking in a novice ass is not just an honor – but also a responsibility. Not only don’t I want to damage my newly acquired toy, I’m focused on making the de-flowering as wonderful experience as possible.

Taking the time to educate a future ass jockey in heath, safety and the selection of the proper anal accoutrements, are the beginning steps to a successful session. After all – anal play is one of my passions, and I take pride in molding an inquisitive bottom boy into a full-fledged anal slut.

Time should also be a consideration before you decide to put the control of your virgin ass in the hands of a mature and kinky Fem Dom. The proposition of an eager and un-explored man pussy presented for my pleasure and training will mean I will want the luxury of time- to play with such a delightful gift.

Fevered fantasies of being roughly pushed across The Boss’ desk and taken like a whore may be what brought you into my world –but it will be my tried and true methods that will change you into full-fledged ass jockey. Be warned, showing eagerness and trusting an experienced Mistress to guide you towards your basest desires, may forever cleave you to me.

The process should move forward slowly with graduated steps, until the spark of curiosity grows into a craving that lasts a lifetime. Your needs hard wired into your brain and forever connected to those heady and pleasurable sensations you’ve been guided toward.

Turn your wet dreams into reality, under the care and tutelage of an experienced and knowledgeable anal BDSM Trainer Miss Viv.

For an erotic phone session with Lifestyle Mistress Vivian, call 800-601-6975
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BDSM Trainer Asks What Is A Party Without A Slut

Vivian — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 17:43:00 +0000

After a fun filled weekend & an unexpected party last night, I thought I’d pull out something from my files to share with you. Many of the callers to my phone sex line, love to hear about what it would be like, if they were invited to be, The Party Slut.

Listen To What’s A Party Without A Slut

No slut to take coats, tote toy cases and Serve the every need of the honored guests?

Why that’s no party At ALL. Shoot – that’s just coffee with a neighbor.

Nope – for it to be a REAL party, there has to be a slut du jor.

No matter the nature of the servant, be they frilly sissy, in head to toe French Maid decadence, or a buff tasty boy in cock rings and apron -their function is Service – done with a Go To attitude and willingness to be used.

Yes, I said used.

Of course there is the fetching and dispensing of beverages, done quietly with grace and proper portage. Striving to do each task perfectly while the eyes of the Mistress Hostess are on you, will test your focus and servant’s mind.

But what will you do, my pet – when the hands of a stranger, slide over your pretty bum, as you bend to retrieve something dropped on the floor? Will you remember to smile with your eyes cast to your feet, and thank our guest for the attention? A little wiggle would surly make you memorable.

How sweet it must be to your ears – hearing the other’s compliment your Lifestyle Trainer how well mannered and attractive her new slut is. Training always shines through, when the stock is of the quality I demand.

Even the laughter at your expense, doesn’t set you off balance. No, you like it, the Humiliation.

The Masters, Mistresses and even their submissives, find the blush creeping up your neck delightfully amusing. You can hear the conversation from your place in the kitchen, turn from gay laughter to moans and yelps of pain, and wonder just what you may have gotten yourself into.

Excited aren’t you? Hoping that you will be called to refresh Mistress’ coffee and get a peek at the action must be making your imagination fly and your dick twitch.

There’s that sound!

The peal of a crystal bell – a perfect C over middle C – that summons you to Service – also calls you into the unknown. It is your cue that pulls you to your feet, rising to your full height and moving forward, coffee carafe in hand and so eager to please.

Even with dozens of assignments completed, and months of phone Training, building trust and establishing limits of use, you still tremble slightly, handing me your leash, and refreshing my cup. A quick tug on the thin chain attached to your right nipple ring, snaps your head around and puts you eye to eye with your Trainer.

I see you slut, trying to focus on your Mistress – while scantly clad and naked females scurry around you. Oh that cute – the deer in the headlights look is too precious – kneel and look around you.

Pay no attention to those silly femsubs, giggling and pointing in your direction.

They are just excited that Mistress Vivian has a new servant for inspection.

Stay sharp new slut – you are lowest in the pecking order tonight – and those devious creatures may just manipulate you into some trouble. You feel lighter and lightheaded as the chain attached to your numb tit, is refastened to your collar. Draping the slack over your shoulder, you feel your body shiver at the light kiss on your cheek and commanded to stand in the center of the room.

Gruff male voices hush the tittering, and the sound of hands hitting flesh might make others in your situation, step out of mode and look around – but not you. You have been Trained well for this night. It was those quiet moments, late at night – you whispering on the phone, from a dank corner of the basement – full of questions of how you might be used – at this very moment

Kinks that you have dreamed and fantasized about all your adult life could finally be coming true. Sharing the tales of those who went before you, made you more than a door mat, more than green, quivering male – unprepared and in over his head.

Look up slut and tell me what you see in your Mistress’ face. Pride. Yes, you are correct.

Now look at the others, all nodding their heads in appreciation of your self- control and something else. What else precious? What can you read from the faces now focused on you? Yes, curiosity for sure.

Look deeper in their eyes. Feel the energy around you. Take a deep breath and zero in on the fragrance hanging in the air. Oh yes precious, your own face is a kaleidoscope of emotions and I can feel your inner struggle, not to flee. Say it slut – what do you see?

Hunger. Yes! Hunger that food doesn’t quench.

Hunger, so close to the edge of sanity, the air feels heavy and damp, with a lingering odor of something musky. You see it now precious – each and every face is filled with – the want of you.

Look at me. Look at my smile, so warm and loving, and tell me that you are ready to be used. Tell me that you trust your Fem Dom to keep you safe. Listen as we all speak the Safe Word now in place, and always honored. Now you my dear slut face the others and say RED clearly – it is your only way out, once we begin.

Good boy!

Keep your eyes down and feel the whispering girlies strip and prepare you for inspection, and then we will see if all the hours of practice sucking your dildo, will pay off.

Are you curious about the rest of the story? You may call Mistress/Trainer Vivian and hear about how a real life submissive and Party Slut is used in our own kinky circles.

For an erotic phone session with Lifestyle Mistress Vivian, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+
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Full Up @ Lifestyle Miss Viv’s Party

Vivian — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 16:31:39 +0000

Woot! It’s a Kinky Company Weekend!

Everyone, including me, the Hostess are busy as bees in preperation for our BDSM Family’s arrival tomorrow afternoon. It’s a Full Compliment this weekend, with meetings, eating & lots of play. Master P Daddy & miss pink AND His playslut will be staying for the night and that means …

Cam Show Show-Off Slut Phone Sex Appointments Are OPEN! 7-10 PM slots are avalibul via e-mail for Saturday ONLY.

Grab your SEX TOYS, slip on your sexiest undies & Be The Party Entertainment!

Special Requests From The Party Guests

Un-cut Cocks
Cross-Dressers
Ass Jockeys
Wana Be Cock Whores

Because They Don’t Believe They Come That Small!

Tiny Dicked Wankers

Be the 1st Slut On The Block To BUST a Nut!