Mistress hasn’t been totally bunkered in; I’ve been enjoying getting . . . → Read More: Mistress Viv Awards A Blue Ribbon]]>

Good Morning dear Readers! I don’t know about y’all, but this summer has been Crazy busy at the Casa de Kinky. It’s been non-stop guests since the heat hit, and that has kept me from my favorite busy work, writing here on Fem Domain.

Mistress hasn’t been totally bunkered in; I’ve been enjoying getting up close and personal over at LDW’s growing adult social network- the Enchantrix Empire. If you aren’t a Member of the Court, you really should check it out. Lately, old hands permitting- you can find me taking your early morning wood calls and hanging out in the Community Kink Free Chat Room.

Check my Yahoo Messenger status to see if sucking down java w/ our kinky chatters.

Now my darling sluts, I know you Love hearing about Mistress Viv and The Road Trip Slut - so I will bring you up to speed about the twisted little games we play, while we wait for our next journey of highway humiliation.

Panty slut wilma –spends 90% of the day working from the car and is very accessible to my whims. Most anything, a song, a sexy phone call, or even a passing comment from The Helper, can spark my need to send his tramp ass to the nearest 7-11 for a snack and a sample of Mistress’ momentary flash of perversion.

For some reason, perhaps it’s all the kinky company in the house, I feel festive and find myself wanting to control his cock & balls throughout the entire day. Of course the darling has to work, but still I want to be in the forefront of his mind while he sells his lil heart out. But I wondered how? After all, Mistress doesn’t want to compromise his job that allows him to spoil me.

Then when The Helper said in passing that my beloved hubby sub was – “A Blue Ribbon Man” it reminded me of a May I Cum essay/audio I wrote titled, The Blue Ribbon Slut, and I sent slut wilma on a mission.

Since then, I’ve gotten so much pleasure,  knowing my pet is closing a big deal with his balls tied up so pretty, and streamers of ribbons tickling at his knees.

 Mistress is Proud to say- eager slut wilma is a Blue Ribbon Slut &

 I have the pictures to prove it!

For An Erotic Phone Session w/ Slut Trainer Vivian call  800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
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A comment left on my  post BDSM Lifestyle Mistress . . . → Read More: Lifestyle Mistress Serves Up A Mess `o Leftovers]]>

Greetings darling readers! I can’t hardly believe that we are  5 days into April  – and I’m still working my March To Do List!  So – instead of shooting for the impossible, Mistress is going to make this post a Big Ole Mess Of Leftovers.

A comment left on my  post BDSM Lifestyle Mistress Cleans Up got me to thinkin’ about the misconceptions of CBT and that pain is a very subjective subject. Remembering some scraps I wrote on the subject, I dug up the following from my files.

Pain Is Subjective

Its true.

What may make you scream in agony, could be just a tickle for someone else. Pain is more than force, when used for sexual play, and can travel from mild to wild, depending on the bottom’s threshold and the Top’s desire.

Me? I love to eek out pain – slowly.

Having already established a Safe Word, RED – the Mistress has the freedom to push the envelop and have an extra helping of FUN.

 I want to bring in props, pervertables, gathered from the house or office, and test – how many whacks it takes to make you go – OW! Mm that makes my pink parts tingle.

I am a Benevolent Sadist

I want to hurt you and I want you to suffer, but I want you to like it. Screaming that isn’t followed by my victim, er .. bottom .. begging for more, just doesn’t turn me on. Odd, huh? I tell myself, just like I tell my callers, who think they are the most twisted perverts on the earth – Its just how you are wired.

Wondering What’s Up With Miss Viv?

For the month of April – The Hump Day Radio Show is taking a break. But never fear – lovers of smooth tunes and twisted comedy – you never know when I’ll feel like firing up The Cock – just for grins. Follow Me On Twitter For Instant Up Dates.

Talk Shoe – In The Boudoir w/ Constance & Vivian
Next Call In Show APRIL 11th at 11 AM Eastern.
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Recorded Conversations w/ Lifestyle Mistress Ryan & Viv. Published for your listening enjoyment on Provotalk

The Sissy/Stroker Auction May 1st. Earn Pennies  Rate our Talk Shoe Shows Full Auction Details

Sexy Texting Is Back! Let’s Type Dirty in the NEW Chat Room! You all know how much I enjoy interactive pornographic keyboarding with horny men! Make it Super Special and Fire UP Your Vid Cam for my viewing pleasure.

For an erotic phone session with Lifestyle Mistress Vivian, call   800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
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How many strap-ons does one Fem Dom Need?

Really, this is almost silly, how many cases of toys we own! After  20 + years practicing D/s I expected to find a large assortment of toys and tools, but when I laid . . . → Read More: BDSM Lifestyle Mistress Cleans Up]]>

Spring! A time for renewal and a time to clean out the Toy Box.

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How many strap-ons does one Fem Dom Need?

Really, this is almost silly, how many cases of toys we own! After  20 + years practicing D/s I expected to find a large assortment of toys and tools, but when I laid them out to sort, I was surprised that I own more dildos and other assorted insert-ables – than shoes.

I can hear my fellow Mistresses – well known shoe fanatics – gasping for air! Priorities dear readers, priorities! Live long enough, and you just don’t need another pair of sexy black pumps.  Same – same w/ the collection spread out on my bed. This may turn out to be a bigger project than I wanted to start, an hour before the house mouse arrives.

Priorities dear readers – are ever shifting. At least my burst of Spring Energy got the CBT cases sorted, cleaned and ready to use! Not only is everything put back all nice and tidy, but my slut hubby even took some pictures of some of the more Advanced CBT Tools I enjoy using!

Questions?
Mistress Vivian would be happy to explain – in painful detail – just how each one works.

For an erotic CBT phone session w/ Lifestyle Mistress Vivian, call   800-601-6975
Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://www.ratemycall.com

Can’t Get To The Phone?

Let’s Type Dirty

Well my little cuppy cakes – it’s time for you to head on over to . . . → Read More: Friday Figging Fun w/ Lifestyle Mistress Viv]]>

Happy weekend everyone! Are feeling a little jaded? Miss Viv knows that you do get weary just jerking off to the same fantasies and that you are in need of something NEW to get your motor running in over-drive.

Well my little cuppy cakes – it’s time for you to head on over to the produce department and pick up a BIG hand of ginger and join the ranks of Mistress Vivian’s Figging Club. With just a little bit of preparation and a desire for the warmth and pain that only a figging can do.

Safe for play, ginger has been used as a sexual prop since the Victorian times. Even before it was used for sex games, in Roman times a plug of ginger, or even a radish was used for both punishment for naughty humans and even to make a lackadaisical horse appear more lively for sale.

If you could have peeked into my world a few days ago, you’d have seen one very horny male submissive, prancing like a new colt, and begging to be allowed to touch. No no I told him – Mistress wants to watch you suffer and grow more needy as the moments pass.

Mistress has taken many down this path and it is at this point in our session, when the cock is throbbing, the anus burning and the bottom is begging, that I begin to carve the ginger again, this time – fashioning a long sliver, and smiling at pleading  wide-eyed slut.

Poor darling, he doesn’t know that I’ve just begun  and there are more dark and private places for me to play my figging game.

Figging Fun w/ Lifestyle Mistress Vivian – 800-356-6169

They are in no particular order, and you are welcome to e-mail me any of your own.

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Where will . . . → Read More: Lifestyle Mistress Vivian’s Pre Session Questionnaire]]>

With my thanks to Miss Josephine for the wonderful suggestion to develop a pre-session Q&A-  here are some of the questions I am asked most – and the ones I like to ask.

They are in no particular order, and you are welcome to e-mail me any of your own.

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Where will you be calling from, the office, home or car?
Where’s your favorite spot to play?
Some of you already know the nasty thrill you give me – when you call from the last stall of the men’s room.

What level of privacy will you have?
Mine is total.

Do you REALLY want to be denied?
REALLY? If you say yes Ma’am, when I inquire if you are currently following any form of chastity – Miss Viv will NOT allow you release.

Would you rather have that Big Finish?
Speak up stroker boy! After all, you are calling the Empress of Happy Endings.

Will you have toys for our session? 
No worries if you don’t have a footlocker full of accoutrements, something fun to play with could be sitting right there in your right hand junk drawer.

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What about, pain?
From mild to wild — your pain makes me hot. Pain puppies — please note — The House Safe Word, is RED. CBT lovers should familiarize themselves with the following:

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Does slipping on a silky pair of panties – excite you?
Auntie Viv understands the many needs and desires of our trans-gendered and cross-dressing community, and employs her years of experience to guide you towards a happier and more beautiful you.

Audio assignments with my gurls in mind, can be found here. Meet a like-minded community at our FREE forum, Get Girlie.

Are you an exhibitionist and crave to show off on cam and amuse your Mistress?
Is it a benefit to us both for you to contact either by e-mail or Yahoo IM, prior to your session. Closing down unnecessary programs and checking your lighting before you call, will save both time, and minutes.

Is there a particular subject, kink, fetish, or fantasy you’d like to explore on our call?
Please take a moment to review my Hard Limits, which are based on safe — sane — consensual — SSC — practices.

· No minors
· No Livestock
· No Scat
· No Family Interplay

How can you Contact Mature Miss Viv?
YM   empressvivian
E-Mail empressvivian@yahoo.com
Phone 800-356-6169

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Big ones, small ones – not micro . . . → Read More: A Mature Mistress’ Not So Secret Kink]]>

Hello dear readers! There’s so much to catch you up with, I just had to write. First off – Mistress’ not so secret kink. Being of American birth, and coming into my sexual stride in the mid 70′s, makes me pretty jaded, when it comes to dicks.

Big ones, small ones – not micro – white ones, brown ones, straight ones and even pricks that curved to the left – I’ve seen them all. However, the one kind of cock, I don’t ever see enough of, is an uncut one.

Or as I like to call them – untrimmed BEEF!

Many of my girlfriends wouldn’t know an uncircumcised dick, if they tripped over it. OK maybe if it was THAT big – but they are so rare now – I’m sure most young Women, have never had the pleasure of diddling with a man’s foreskin. I have. And being the Sadist that I am, I have several little tricks to play, with a Natural guy.

It is always one of the questions I ask in session – about the state of your manhood and I am ALWAYS hopeful there will be extra bits to torture on our erotic phone sex sessions.

Today, your Miss Viv-  Mature and Wise and Sometimes Too Jaded, took her favorite natural boy in hand -  and had some Nasty fun with his throbbing cock. Of course, my johnnie boy knows I want my cock to start out, in the non-throbbing state, so I can mangle and manipulate him while his cock head is still hiding.

Whobuddy! Hand me the clothespins! There’s So Many tender spots to choose from. He has been Ordered to get his cam set up- to be Trained as a cam slut stroker  so I can Share The Joys of Untrimmed Beef, with all my horny friends!

Hey! Tomorrow! 8 PM EDT is the LAST Hump Day Radio Show. Tune in & Come To The Interactive FREE Chat Room, and get  the 411 on many of the new shows and changes in broadcast time slots – coming your way this month.

Did You Vote Today?

I’ve been a VERY busy Fem Dom,  running the helpers like a well oiled machine, preparing our Home for a very special visitor. However, that doesn’t mean I haven’t been thinking about, you too – my sweet . . . → Read More: TGIF! Mature Mistress Viv’s New Smut]]>

Smut! I love that word! And for you today my little cuppy cakes, a little Friday Treat!

I’ve been a VERY busy Fem Dom,  running the helpers like a well oiled machine, preparing our Home for a very special visitor. However, that doesn’t mean I haven’t been thinking about, you too – my sweet stroker boys.

UpDated Today

New Audio Assignments From May I Cum & Domination Boot Camp

I’ve always enjoyed watching others work. Add to it that today, the extra helper . . . → Read More: Mature Mistress Does Her TGIF Dance!]]>

Oh I LOVE Fridays~ So much going on around the house, getting it ready for the weekend! No, no guests this week, but I’ve been dragging in dirt from the garden all week, and it needs a good once over.

I’ve always enjoyed watching others work. Add to it that today, the extra helper is getting a treat! When I am fortunate enough to have an extra pair of hands, who is paid in play – it’s a happy day indeed.

Today, as instructed, he brought with him a short list of – “wishes”. It is a little game we play – since his Service is spotty,  our play usually  long distance – The Notebook.

It is in this very special diary he keeps notes for me.  There in the pages is a shopping list, wanking schedule, and Wish List.  It is the Wish List that I most enjoy. I get to read all his little nasty thoughts that have been brewing since our last visit.

One weekend it was all about quiet Service and Training to be unobtrusive when Mistress is busy with calls and office work. With bells on his ankles, each time he jingled, he was put over my lap. He tried so hard to be a good lil housemouse, but he failed repeatedly and had the cutest bruises all over his tight white bum.

Funny, he didn’t seem to mind at all.

This weekend, I have chosen PAIN. The darling slut wants to see if he can beat the number of cock rings roy wears – 8. Nothing like a goal to shoot for!

What will you be doing this weekend? Why not check out some of the Cock Radio Shows, being broadcast tonight? Or make a quick run and pick up some of my favorite tiny tortures, and give yourself a treat of a sweet and nasty phone sex call.

Lifestyle Mistress Vivian – 800-356-6169

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Oh we had So much FUN . . . → Read More: Figging Fun Facts On The Hump Day Radio Show]]>

Join your Cock Jock Miss Viv tonight at 8PM Eastern, for The Hump Day Radio Show.  I’ll be playing those lovely old tunes and selections from my Twisted Comedy Vault.  Stop by our FREE Adult Chat Room and get up close and personal with your Adored LDW Mistresses!

Oh we had So much FUN in the Chat Room durining the show! It isn’t often that a new topic comes up .. but everyone seemed to enjoy our

Tonight, there’s going to be some figging  instructions  for those who pick up a nice fat hand of ginger and are ready to play. I’ll be taking your sweet and nasty phone sex calls right after the show so my lil anal jockeys can get a one on one Figging Experience.

Don’t Forget

Set Your Cocks

I Mean Clocks and tune into the Hump Day Radio Show @ 9PM Eastern

Lifestyle Fem Dom Vivian – 800-356-6169

The Wrap Up! AT LAST! My home network went tits up, and couldnt’ get to my notes … so here goes!

I promised that I’d post some highlights of Figging Play.

 Buy the largest hand you can find and scurry it home.   Keep the entire hand in a cool dry place until you are ready to use it.   The sooner you use it, however, the better the effect

Remove the finger by cutting down into the palm of the hand so that you get a long, uniform width finger.  I like to use a finger no smaller than 4 inches.  Longer is better. 

Take a paring knife or vegetable peeler and remove the brown skin.  Make sure all the skin is off as well as insuring that all the bumps and knots are cut off and smoothed as well. 

 Try not to remove too much meat underneath, as you want to retain as full a finger as possible.   Take your time and don’t rush this step.

After you have carefully completed this step, rinse the finger off and dip it in cold water.  Make sure the tip of the finger is sufficiently rounded. 

 Cut a julienne slice of peeled ginger.  It should be approximately 1/8-1/4 inch wide by at least 1 inch long.  Make sure it is smooth and that the edges are rounded.

Thouroghly wash your hands, and the fun can begin.

 He commented just the other day how happy I am, since I joined The Mistresses of LDW . . . → Read More: Mature Miss Viv Bids April 2009 Good Bye]]>

Phew what a month!  There’s been fun parties, big weather, new birdies, and so many tasty phone sex calls, I’ve been deliciously randy for weeks. Oh, before I forget, my slut hubby wants to say, Thank You!

 He commented just the other day how happy I am, since I joined The Mistresses of LDW - and that always means more loving torture for him. So the next time one of you asks me what my beloved and owned pain puppy thinks about all my nasty phone sex calls, I’ll point them here.

Looking back over my notes for April – I have to say, it was an exciting month. Submissive males in search of ownership, shopping with my favorite sissy gurls, and a multitude of stroker sluts, begging for release from The Empress of Happy Endings.

Some callers of note – who left their Mistress with a -bseg- on her face were ..  and in no particular order…

My plumber’s helper – who never fails to give me the best cam show from his bathroom, and always brings something new to our twisted sessions.

The Swedish Gent that I love sharing a glass of wine with, getting to know him, and tuning my ear to his accent has been a true pleasure.

Mrs K – my girlie love. I know your pink parts tingled, knowing I’m thinking of you Right Now.

Miss Tara the Spank Mistress and I have a new pet – our lil pink turtle. Don’t ask me how it got started, but pink turtle has taken her place in the anals of Community Kink, along side beloved characters as fucking magnus and tony da shrimp. I will be adding more to the story of the Brave Reptile and Miss Tara‘s unexpected revenge.

Happy May Day! Maypole CBT Calls Today!  800-356-6169