Hello dear Readers! Whobuddy with the holidays just around the corner, it has been getting busy around the Casa de Kinky. So busy with the expected festivities, we are pulling in some extra help, this coming week. Not wanting to take anything away from the service and assistance the paid help gives, but . . . → Read More: Preparing the Perfect Pet for Mistress]]>

Hello dear Readers! Whobuddy with the holidays just around the corner, it has been getting busy around the Casa de Kinky. So busy with the expected festivities, we are pulling in some extra help, this coming week. Not wanting to take anything away from the service and assistance the paid help gives, but what I’m longing for, is a Perfect pet at my side.

What is a Perfect Pet for a Mature Mistress?

For this ole Fem Dom, he would be something like the new boy I collared this morning, my little farmer pet. Many of you might be surprised to hear that I have taken such a serious and rare step, into Ownership. Not to be taken lightly, my cherished pet had to prove himself before kissing his first collar and declaring himself, mine.

Proving a Pet’s Worthiness

In the 4 years I’ve spent with the LDW Group, there have been many darling submissives longing to sit at the beautiful feet of a significant and superior Woman – and yet only a 2 have shown the kind of devotion I require, to wear the symbol of my possession.

Drive by adoration won’t do, oh no! Only those eager and thoughtful boys who are prepared to shower attention on their Mistress have a chance to be called pet. Daily contact, keeping a journal, completing assignments in a timely manner and always being available for my amusement, are the first steps to gaining the Honor of the title of Vivian’s pet.

Crawling the Extra Mile

All these years gone by, with scores of fellows who make a phonesex call and talk about their genuine desire to be cared for and cherished and Controlled – but real life only allows the fantasy, in the moment. Then there are those like my freshly minted Precious Pet, eager, generous and focused on me, his Owner, Protector and Friend.

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In The Mood To Use

Yes indeed gents – your . . . → Read More: You Don’t Have To Be Bad To Get A Good Spanking]]>

Good Morning Dear Readers! Grab someone you Love -and have at it – cause it’s Its Hump Day! Are you all by your lonesome today? Go on and Snatch a pillow and get to bumpin’ and warm up that dick for Mistress.

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In The Mood To Use

Yes indeed gents – your gyrations are just the start of our fun. You see I woke up all happy and frisky today and in a mood to spank some ass. Oh, don’t be scared, you are far from the 1^st man, to offer up his bottom and lay across my lap. After all, I did say spanking, not beating.

The Nuances of Spanking

The Spanking Lifestyle has changed over the past 20 years – but I remember a time when our BDSM group shared party space with an out of town Spanking Club with their own set of play rules – many that were different from ours.

As with most well-run events, the House Rules were presented by both groups and I learned that for the Spankers, striking tools were not permitted. No crops, no paddles, only hands and soft sensation toys. Masters were dressed in suits or business casual and the ladies all looked ready for a night out on the town.

We found them a fun group to watch, playing pass the naughty girl around and sending notes to each other with kinky instructions. No nipple clamps, no full nudity, no heavy bondage, but it didn’t matter, the moaning and sounds of flesh striking flesh was titillating.

Now, you can’t really tell the Spankers from the D/s players

Pulling Out The Big Guns

As fun as it was to experience another kind of kink, this ole Fem Dom LOVES her sex toys. Anyway, my hands get tender so fast, but they are still – by far – my favorite tools for the warm up.

The warm up is So Important. Spending the time to slowing and gradually bring the blood up to the surface, not only makes it the prettiest pink, but also keeps the bottom from becoming leathery in the future.

As soon as I see that rosy glow, I like to start adding in some of my favorite things. The parachute cord mini flogger has a short sharp bite when flicked, but can also make the subject shiver when dragged across the tender sweet spots. A springy ruler, hard wooden spoon and then maybe the ping pong paddle, or quirt.

Oh the possibilities are endless, when you give over your sweet ass – to please your Mistress.

Nothing like multi-tasking . . . → Read More: Tease That Prick]]>

What a weekend! It is wonderful and cool again, with weather that is more Halloweeine than the usual hellishly hot, Indian Summer. While most of you were still asleep in your beds, I was puttering in the garden – cleaning up what the wind blew in and giving the patio good scrub.

Nothing like multi-tasking and getting your cardio and cleaning done at the same time. So brutal was the summer on my yards, I refuse to take a picture of my new favorite birdie bath that was a gift from a real sweetie, Mindy. It has become the most popular place in my yard for all kinds creatures, and a perfect spot for the migrating Monarchs to stop for a drink. Thank you Mindy – we all love it!

Monday Morning Kinky Wrap UP 

I hear tell it was also a great weekend for sports, but over here at the Casa de Kinky,  we had a Masturbation Marathon. It wasn’t just the naughty phonesex calls I took yesterday, but it was also a fun game we played here at Home. It got started when I made a passing comment about one of my callers, who had just jerked off to Completion , for the 4th time that morning.

Be Careful of What You Wish For From a Prick Teaser

Pussies said my slut hubby, royboy – only 4? Well to me, that sounded like the gauntlet had been thrown down and it wasn’t even Noon yet! I thought it was time for ole roy to put his money shot where his mouth is and see if he could follow the Rules, and stay one ahead of my compulsive wanking client.

Let The Kinky Games Begin

The Rules were simple, they had to be – men, even the best Trained like my sub hub – can’t think right when they have a hard-on.

1- Jerking begins at the Top of the Hour

2- Each stroking session must be completed within 60 mins

3- Jerkers must show proof of each orgasm. For my caller to win he had to send in picture proof and for roy- well I got to watch him dump his mess and eat it up.

I allowed the use of porn for both the contestants, but I determined which genre they could watch. For my  caller, it was all about his favorite proclivity, cock sucking and for my beloved, lesbians with strap- ons.

WINNING No Whining

I don’t know if it was the hot sex we had on Saturday night, but poor roy threw in the Cum Towel at # 6 and my caller won the day and a free call, with 8 cummies to his name.

All in all it was one Fine & Fun Sunday at Home

Confessing the Errors . . . → Read More: A Mature Mistress Knows You Will Screw Up]]>

Good Monday dear readers! Finally I got to have a quiet weekend, it was devoid of plans, kinky parties or  guests, and it was just what I needed! As I was digging through my mail, I was surprised to find a note from one of my sluts who has been MIA for months.

Confessing the Errors of Your Ways

For some it is almost impossible to step up and admit they have strayed from the path I have set for them, but as a skilled BDSM Trainer I expect it, and know what to do when my submissives, like my darlin’ lost boy – who wrote to confess he was using my pictures to jerk-off by!

No One is Perfect

There comes a time when all good submissives, not matter what they may label themselves – sissy, cuckold, stroker, cross dresser, show off stroker, pain puppies, strap-on slut, chastity boys, or my favorite Glory Hole cock suckers – will sooner or later screw up, and there will be Punishment Due!

This is for you strokers jerking off to my pictures, time and time again. I hope you are polite, and blow that load in your hand, or glad rag, and not all over Miss Viv’s powder blue suit or the electronics.  I KNOW you pull that picture up – One stocking on- the other not. My perfect foot perched on that beautiful chair, smiling. You may have wondered what I was thinking right then, but I won’t tell. Click the pretty picture to find out.

I do know what my callers are thinking while they pull their poles and dream of me – you confess enough for me to have a pretty clear picture – of all the nasty thoughts running around in your confused lil pea brains!

Jerking without Permission earned him a Punishment he deserved. Could YOU pick the proper Punishment? I did

Lordy! Did I ever need it too… but . . . → Read More: Mistress Gets Served]]>

Hello dear ones! Did you miss me? Or didn’t you notice your MILF Mistress was gone? You must have, I just spent the last hour answering e mails! Thank you all for thinking of me whilst I was away being pampered after the long hard winter.

Lordy! Did I ever need it too… but unlike most other Women who book themselves into a hotel Spa with a girlfriend, this weary Fem Dom dragged the spare boy-slut along for wing-man duties and general fun. I love my girlie friends, but I needed some tasty thing to push around.

There’s nothing like having a sexy servant in tow!

Doors opened, luggage toted, registration and unpacking all done while I parked my pretty behind at the lobby bar, to flirt with the help. That my Friends is WAY better than chatty females, who can’t seem to make up their minds. So relaxing, sipping Cosmos before Noon and daydreaming of two days of bliss.

BLISS = Every wish- no matter how frivolous -fulfilled by an eager- to- please – Man-slut!

When the Concierge slid up next to me and asked – Penny for your thoughts, all I could do was laugh for a moment. He was young, with an accent I couldn’t place, and he smelled spicy. Just as I was noting his blue eyes and perfectly cut suit, I heard my slut cough softly from behind.

Your rooms are prepared Madame. How else can I be of Service? I called for my check, looked at the surprised Concierge, and dug in my purse. Placing a shiny penny on the bar, I winked and whispered in his ear..

YOU

Old Mistress sees you slut! Don’t even try to hide it, you’ve been caught red-handed and the blush creeping up your neck proves . . . → Read More: MILF Mistress Catches You Red-Handed]]>

Would you believe it dear ones? I step out to run an errand today, leaving the houseboy in charge and what do I come back to?

A Panty Pilferer! Caught Red Handed

Old Mistress sees you slut! Don’t even try to hide it, you’ve been caught red-handed and the blush creeping up your neck proves it.

Take those hands from behind you back and show me what you have.

Hesitation?

That will cost you slut, now show me.

Gasp!

Whose panties are those?

Your Mistress knows they aren’t hers, nor are they any pair a slut like you are allowed.

Fess up, who’s hamper have you been pilfering?

Yes, you best keep those eyes down, you naughty thing, while Mistress makes them into a pretty hat for you.

The Panty Boy Gets His Punishment

Yes, just the right touch for the dinner party tonight.

Not only something to amuse our kinky guests, but also remind you of your error and keep you mind on your duties party slut.

Now sit there in the corner and think about how humiliating it will be, when the doorbell rings tonight and you have to answer it, wearing two pairs of panties and lovely blue apron.

The Humilation Continues

 Of course there will be laughing, and no doubt some questions.

To make the evening move smoothly, you will reply to any queries about your panty bonnet –

The man slut is learning the errors of his ways.

Any further questions will be directed to your Mistress.

Shoo!  Off with you, till you are called. Do not speak unless spoken to, and no wiggling.

Distracting your Mistress as she works with fidgeting, will gain you 20 with attitude – in my swing.

What’s the matter precious? You wish to beg forgiveness? Your salvation is just a phone call away.

Did you memorize it as instructed?

Sometimes when I sit down . . . → Read More: Is It Cuckoo To Be a Cuckold?]]>

Good Morning cuppy cakes! It is COLD in Texas and Mistress is staying in! Hard to believe it was warm enough to putter in the garden yesterday, and today it’s all frosty. As the locals say – if don’t like the weather here – just wait a few hours.

Sometimes when I sit down to write, I flip through my notes and take a stroll down Memory Lane. Today I’m thinking back to the when I was first invited to join the LDW Group and how much I’ve learned in the past 3 years.

It’s True You Can Teach an Old Dog New Tricks!

Okay, before I start getting IMs and e mails about how youthful I am, let me tell you one thing I learned, right off the bat. I used to think that the term cuckold was just a bit of history – something from the Victorian age that wasn’t contemporary.
Imagine my surprise to find out it was not just an old word, but a thriving fetish in our modern world. Even more surprising was realizing my own submissive slut husband is also my cuckold.

The D/s Mistress Is The Boss

As a Lifestyle Fem Dom and Head of Household I have total control over two things in my relationships– the Money & the Sex. It never occurred to me that when I played with one of the houseboys, that I was cuckolding my husband and there was more to it, than being The Boss.

Mistress had a Eureka Moment

It was at the end of private play party that I had my Eureka moment, when I slid my sore pussy over my slut husband’s face and he began to lick. Rising up off him I looked down and asked … if he could taste brucie. The reaction was amazing as he grabbed my still pert ass, fusing me to his mouth and eating me out like a starving man. I flipped around, jerked his throbbing cock, and rode his face like a green broke pony. Well-trained, he waited for my climax, and blew his load just as I was dumping another man’s jizz down his throat.

It was that moment I understood that cuckold was more than an old word from long ago, but a vibrant addition to our BDSM play.