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Why You Fantasize About Becoming a Cuckold Husband

The Shame and degradation of being a Cuckold

Is This The Reason You crave to be a Cuckold Husband?

If you dream of being a cuckold husband, the most prevelent answer is – you have a tiny penis.  How can you fulfill your partner’s needs, if you are swinging a 4” cock. Humilating isn’t it, when you look down, and know you are only half  a man?

Cuckold Wants The Best For Their Lovers

I have learned as a phone sex Mistress, is that most cuckolds are first and formost thinking about the needs of his lover.  He knows she deserves better than the nubbin’ you are always rubbin’.  The trick of getting what you want for both of you, is to show her all the perks she would have, if she’s just go find a real man to fuck.

Happy Wife = Happy Life

It isn’t always easy, to be open and honest about your predilections, but without good communication, you’ll spend the rest of your life – longing. Sexy pillow talk about your fantasies, is a good starting point. Nuzzle up and whisper how often you dream about a real man taking over your duties.  How excited you would be, to see her being made love to, in a way – you never  could.

If she hasn’t jumped out ot the bed, and headed for the hills …  you are one fortunate man!  That 1st positive step is just the beginning.  Now it’s time to talk with a Woman who has cuckolded her own husband – for more than a decade.

Call MILF Mistress Vivian and discover what real life cuckolding is all about.

Listen to Your Cuckold Mistress

Owning and Training a Submissive Pet

Nothing pleases BDSM Mistress Vivian then a new submissive pet to train

Training a Submissive Pet

As a RL BDSM Fem Dom, selecting a new submissive pet to train is a decision I don’t take lightly,neither in Real Life or my phone sex business. For the past year I have been getting to know a lovely young man, he’s eager, adoring and generous. Those are qualities I seek out and appreciate, when making such an important decision.

The Phone Sex Cyber Pet

Taking on a phone sex cyber pet is a commitment of my time and patience, both of which seem in short supply lately. Cranky is the New Sexy! 😉 But there is something special about him, that deserves exploration. It has been many years since I trained someone from the ground up, and even though there have been false starts in the past – he just might be worthy of his Training Notebook.

From Lawn-boy to Madame’s submissive pet

The pet has gone through a session of nick names on our journey, and he knows – a pet can always be sent to a nice farm upstate, if he flounders too often. Banishment is by far, the most terrible punishment for a pet. Day after day, all that exuberance and sexual energy and sexual  – keeps building and growing and makes 4 days feel like 4 months.  It’s enough to show even the most resistant of pets, the least difficult road to take.

Banished From Mistress’ Sight

It takes a particular kind of nature to be calm and clear when delivering penance to a charge. Do you remember hearing the phrase; this is going to hurt me, more than you?  I don’t wish to Punish. There’s way more fun for everyone, when Madame is content. No reason for bad behavior, when you can crawl to Her – and sit up and beg, for whatever attention you are craving.

Following directions, finishing assignments in a timely manner, spoiling the one you adore, meeting your obligations, and keeping promises – are hallmark behaviors – and what I demand for the honor of being Madame’s pet. 

Let The Journey Begin 

With his 1st assignments completed, it was the right time to begin his training in earnest. There is nothing quite like a fresh notebook, the spine still stiff, both the pages and submissive –  totally blank. I’ve known that moment, from both sides of the table. All those empty pages waiting to be filled with the unknown. Delight or demerit, the eager to please submissive pet will endure whatever may come – for the right and privilege to lie at his Mistress’ feet.

Listen To – Training a submissive pet


Spicing Up Your Bedroom Antics with Kinky Sex

Add Some Spice w/ Kinky Sex

Add Some Spice w/ Kinky Sex

When you hear the phrase, kinky sex – what comes to mind? Floggers, canes or getting your balls racked? For a BDSM Lifestyle Fem Dom such as myself, the answer is Yes Yes! However, this post will have a kinder and more `nilla theme – after all, you don’t’ want to scare your lover away from trying something new. Instead, let’s start with …

The KISS Principal of Kinky Sex

With any new experience, the goal is to introduce kinky sex in such a way that your partner is agreeable, informed, and trusting. Think about all the fantasies your Pillow talk has brought up in the past, which excited you both.

Do your research! Understand the risks and Communicate! And before you pull out the ropes, clothes pins or leather belt – establish trust by setting your personal Safe Word. Here at the Casa de Kinky, we us the GreenYellowRed, system for safe play.

Even the most experience players can miss their mark or misconstrue their play partner’s body language. Be clear that Red means – STOP – and STOP immediately. This is a perfect opportunity to communicate and decide if that particular activity is worth another try, or put on the No Go list.


When first exploring kinky sex play, use the KISS principle. Scarves to tease or tickle, blindfolds, ice cubes, wooden clothespins or just a nice spanking on her sweet bottom are low risk behaviors and perfect for beginning explorers.

Ask your favorite LDW Mistress for suggestions on your next phone sex session, or simple search our blogs for sexy ideas. The possibilities are endless, when you open your mind and share your kinky needs with the one you adore.


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 It’s only kinky the 1st time. 😉

Warning! Hot Mistress Ahead!

Summer is here and Mistress is Hot

One Hot Mistress

Whobuddy  dear readers, I am one Hot Mistress – some might call me a cock tease!  It was such a beautiful Spring and now look at what’s happening – triple digits are forecast today  for my part of TEXAS. Oh – did your minds go in a different direction? Of course they did.  😉

A Room with a View

I look out my window and think – what a pretty day! Then I step outside and get a blast of heat that could take your breath away and chase a person inside to the coolness.
However there is one sight that will make me stand in the blazing sun – the lawn guys.  Ahh  the lawn dudes – tan and toned and wearing little shorts with work boots, something that is truly sexy to me.

Hot Mistress Daydreaming

I adore watching men work. My mind goes to the naughty side when I see sexy men scurrying around, without noticing me. I cal let my mind wander, and pick out my favorite fellow to add to my ongoing fantasy.

As Noon approached, I took up residence at my office window – hoping that my pick of the day wasn’t going to do the lunch run. It must have been pay day, since they all but 1 left together, while my fantasy stayed back and ate his brown bag lunch.

The Opening Salvo

Oh it was perfectly perfect – him sitting under the shade of the cedars and me with a big pitcher of iced tea. I do believe I surprised him, me in my crisp apron and tiny tennis skirt, holding a frosty glass out to my dream boat, with a wide smile.

When he smiled back and ran his gaze over my long tanned legs, I knew I could guide him in the right direction ,,,, right to the back patio and in ground pool. No man can resist a sexy older woman who can still fill out a bathing suit and perform a perfect dive. It wouldn’t be long before I had him stripped down to his shorts and playing Marco Polo. in the deep end. ~sigh~

Too bad my musings came to a end when the rest of the crew returned. I tucked it away for some other hot day – when my mind wandered over to the naughty side.

Call guys and help me finish the rest of the story.


Horny Men Were Poppin’ Up Like Bluebonnets In Texas For Masturbation May 2016

 Masturbation May Bloomed a Crop of Horny Men

Horny Men Popping Up Like Bluebonnets


Phew! May 2016 was a manic marathon of horny men frantically stroking their cocks, doing their very best to amuse the Ladies of LDW, and us – them. There was so much going on, I suggest you check out Enchantrix Empire, LDW’s –  Adults’ Only social network for the end of the event wrap up.  Not a Member? Join us! Registration is Fast & FREE

Keeping it Fun  & Fresh for Our Phone Sex Callers

It has been said that organizing and running an event like Masturbation May, is harder than herding cats. Fortunate for us, Princess Andi had her Royal Scepter, to keep all the felines – in line. Many thanks to Herself and all the participating Ladies for a very successful month, we sure did wear them out!

Like the Spring Bluebonnets Horny Men Are Popping Up Everywhere

As it usually happens when spring has sprung – a multitude of flowers and horny fellows pop-up their proud heads, and brighten the world around them. Just like loyal puppies
they return to worship at the feet of his Mistress and shower her with tokens of their devotion.

Talk about frisky! The fever – it crept up slowly at first – detouring around the blockades you put in place. Deadlines, budgets, project meetings and more work, just to keep the cravings at bay. When the sun finally breaks through the last of winter’s grey – resolve is replaced with a gnawing hunger to submit and surrender.

Mistresses’ May Phonesex Callers of Note

“A little Madness in the Spring Is wholesome even for the Queen.” Do pardon my paraphrasing Miss Dickinson, I’m sure she’d approve. There was madness yes – but there wasn’t a wholesome minute to be had. You’ll see what I mean, when you read:
May 2016 Favorite Phone Sex Calls

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Masturbation May. Making Merry With Your Man Meat.

Masturbation May 2016


Happy Masturbation May to all my dick diddlers! Do you know what kind of guided masturbation phone sex session I adore the most? You might think it’s when I command you NOT to cum – however I’m quite the opposite. I am The Empress of Happy Endings and it is . . . → Read More: Masturbation May. Making Merry With Your Man Meat.