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Mature Mistress Vivian Memories of May Day

Mature Mistress Vivian writes about her May Day Memories

May Day Memories from a Mature Mistress

When a Mature Mistress slides past the 60 mark, memories of growing up can often seem like ancient history to the younger generations – and sometimes, and even me. I remember.
Pedal Panties, B&W TV, a well-execution curtsy, men in white shirts and black ties, and even vague remembrances of childhood May Days.

Answering Today’s Burning Question.

What Is May Day, oh Wise and Mature Mistress Vivian?

The earliest May Day festival was back in pre-Christian times, but today I will explore the 1st of May celebrations, traditions and dancing around the May Pole in our modern times.
The reasons and symbolism of the holiday are murky at best, but many anthropologists believe that the maypole is simply a part of general rejoicing and a welcome to summer and the first signs of new crop growth.

Memories of the Maypole – Before There Was a Mature Mistress.

You may not be able to see the sweet girlie, in my sexy pictures, I was a tiny cotton head, the 1st time I danced around the maypole with my classmates, much to the delight of our parents. I remember how much fun it was, with all the girls in pretty white dresses and brightly colored ribbons. The memory of those years are so dim; I had to go to Wikipedia for the details.

Do the Dance!

The dance is performed by pairs of boys and girls (or men and women) who stand alternately around the base of the pole, each holding the end of a ribbon. They weave in and around each other, boys going one way and girls going the other and the ribbons are woven together around the pole until the merry-makers meet at the base.

While doing the research, I found a video that reminded me the best, of the May Days of days gone by and my very 1st pole dance.

 Are You Ready To Get It Up For Masturbation May?

Masturbation May is Almost Here!

Masturbation May will start tomorrow the 1st and run all month long. You won’t want to miss a single one of the daily blog posts from the Mistresses of LDW!

Join in the fun of Masturbation May

Masturbation May!


So whatever you call masturbation.

• Pounding your penis
• Choking the Chicken
• Stroking a Hot Rod

What if you have a tiny tool?
• Jerkin’ your Gherkin
• Doing the Two finger Tango

Or what if you call a Clit?

• Rubbin’ your Nubbin’
• Slapping the slit

May is the month for masturbating maniacs – and we know that means Y’all.

Here’s what Cock Control has planned – so far.

MM details, including information on Masturbation May Pass the Penis discounts, great prizes for the Members’ Masturbation Writing Contest, and Strokers of the Month, – just head on over to our adult social network Enchantrix Empire.

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I bet you can hardly wait to hear your Mistress say.

On your mark
Get Ready

Listen To Mistress Vivian

The Prodigal Slut Returns or Be Careful What You Wish For

The Prodigal Slut Returns –  it is a story as old as time – but with a kinky twist. It happens often enough to be worthy of note,  when a regular caller burns up your phone sex line, and then POOF – he’s MIA.  You know Mistress worries!

A slut returns to serv e his Mistress

Be Careful What You Wish For ..

Because you just might get it!

That is what happened when my most loyal of sluts, begged to be punished – and Punished HARD. I understand the need for pain, how it clears the mind of worthless guilt and pumps up all those wonderful endorphins.

Please Mistress, the slut begged – don’t hold back, I’ve been an inattentive ass-hat.

Pain Is A Subjective Thing

In real life I like nothing better than letting my arm out all over  an eager masochist. However, when the play is happening via a webcam session – a BDSM Mistress knows that extra caution is called for – even if it is session # 52 and the slut is the one swinging the paddles.

It was a new request –  this wasn’t going to be the usual bit of spanky-wankie. He said that he needed to suffer deeply – in a way that only his Mistress could bring. We reviewed the Green – Yellow – Red system of Safe Words, and reminded him once again – martyrdom, is not attractive to me, and stupid will be punishable by -banishment.

When You Order A Can Of Whoop Ass

GREEN GREEN GREEN he hollered with every new grouping of strikes, and  panted like hound dog, waiting for more. Oh what a pig for the pain he was that night ..  whimpering and wiggling his very colorful bottom, and begging me not to stop.

 Without Controls –  Power is Risk

He was flying high, nearing a place I have seen 100 times before – I call it .. The Edge of Stupid. It is the point where the Top knows it’s time to wrap it up, even if the submissive doesn’t.  Sitting his hot slut ass on the cold basement floor, made him cry out in pain. I tried not to laugh, but I am a Sadist. 😉

It was time to stroke! With his cock aimed right at his whore mouth – he hardly lasted 4 pumps, before he was splattering thick jizz all over his face, and screaming his Devotion for his Mistress.

I was VERY Proud of my pain pup, and I told him so.  He had taken more than any other of my phone sex clients, and I was sure the 4 hour drive the next day would be enough of a reminder.

MIA Again!

It is just his pattern  the big fun time – and then guilt. Many men who call are fighting against their true natures. They are good men, hard workers and loving husbands, they have  deep needs and tightly held secrets, and they need to be used, and stay on track.

I wouldn’t know for weeks, that his disappearance had nothing to do with the big can of whoop-ass –  and everything to do about his own personal remorse. Once again he is back, and begging for more, because – as he said – Mistress Vivian gave him what he begged for – and it was gooood.

Never worry dear stroker-boys – no matter how far away your roam, or how long you’ve been gone – your Mistress will welcome you back and all it’s costs is a small piece of your pride.

Listen To Mistress Vivian

Chore Days For The House Slut


Howdy y’all it’s House Slut Chore Days over here at the Casa de Kinky this weekend. Now now, I can almost hear your moans of discontent, all the to Texas, because for most of you, the thought of having to spend a weekend being ordered around – just isn’t your idea of fun.

Fun For a BDSM Mistress Means Fun For the House Slut

Imagine if you will, what it’s like to be my houseboy.

I’m a very busy Mistress, and I don’t always have time to pay attention to every little thing around here, but when it’s chore days, my submissive is as eager as a pup, to get started.

Keeping Your Mind Focused on Your Mistress

Earlier today, because of my workload – I kept it simple and just added a few reminders of who he Serves. Starting with four brass cock rings and satin robe, he got busy building a new computer, and I got busy catching up on my writing. Every time I finished another item on my list, I added another reminder with additional cock rings.

Meanwhile Back at The Casa

The fun hasn’t ended yet this evening .. I’m about done with my busy work today, but I couldn’t end the day – without showing you the drawing my darling slut did, to show my fans – my penis bondage handiwork.

Listen To Mistress Vivian


Cock Binding

The House Slut Gets His Cock All Pretty


So what are YOU doing this weekend?

I’m taking your sweet & nasty Phonesex calls till the wee hours!


No Joke! There Are So Many Names For Masturbation



When jerking off becomes c compulsive masturbation

Jerking Until Your Fist Cramps?


Masturbation –  A Joking Matter?

Hell Yeah!
What do you call a man who doesn’t masturbate?
A liar! 🙂

It didn’t take working in the phone sex industry for me to understand how much time and effort a man spends – stroking his meat, but it has added greatly to my vocabulary of nasty phrases.

The Many Ways To Say Jerk That Cock

When you call and beg permission to pull your pud – I do have my favorite instructions for cock stroking sessions … Whack your willie …  Milk your meat or even –
Pound that prick like you mean it bitch boy

Getting More Than Expected

Since so many of you are repeat beaters, and I always want our time together to be fresh, I gave the talented Mistress Christine poke and asked if she might share a few of Her favorites.Showing once again, how giving my fellow Mistresses are, I got more than I asked for. The audio portion of this blog post is brought to you by the sexy Miss Christine.

Listen To Sexy Mistress Christine

An Audio From Vivian


Do you have your own special way of saying masturbate? Please share and leave it on a comment.

Coerced Cocksucking Will Please Your Mistress


Coerced Cocksucking …. Do It For Mistress


Coerced Cocksucking, is fun? Yes my dear man sluts, that’s another way of saying – encouraging you to suck dicks, is fun for Mistress. One of the things I like best about y’all, is how you’re always asking me what you can do to please me, how . . . → Read More: Coerced Cocksucking Will Please Your Mistress