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Bedroom BDSM Games Its All In Good Fun


BDSM Guide Green  Yellow and Red Speanking Zones

Red Zones Means – No!

Good Morning Kinky Friends! Have you ever spiced your love life up with what is called Bedroom BDSM? Think back to your youth, when your imagination was the base of all your play, cowboys, super heroes, and mock weddings – made up a cast of vivid characters.  What about you? Have you forgotten how to play?

In The Beginning – Before BDSM

Even before I knew the meaning of BDSM – sex games and role playing were big in the bedroom, or back ally, pool table  or the back seat of a muscle car – when the mood hit. Necking under the World’s Fair globe in Queens is a fond memory, and the first time I experienced the Power I could wield over a man with a bit of tease and delay.

Defining Moments

Most times, we can all look back and find that defining moment or person that changes not only your path in life, but your sexual tastes too. For this Lifestyle Mistress, it was a house party on Long Island, his name was Don and he rode an old Indian bike.

Pulling me away from the dull party with a promise of a ride along the beach, it was one of those nights that a girl dreams of. A full moon reflecting off the bay, stars bright in the sky with a powerfully built man making me swoon with his kisses. When he put a helmet on me and scooted me close up to his back, I knew we were heading some place where we could have some naked fun.

Bedroom BDSM  Games – Grown Up Fun

Down a winding road, past apple orchards and up a hill – where his home sat, small and cozy, it fit perfectly in the tall elms. Leading me past the threshold and seating me in front of the stone fireplace before stirring the embers and brining the fire back to life.

Fires mesmerize me, and when he whispered – Trust me? – I nodded without thinking, but didn’t regret my answer. His hand slid from my brow, down my face,  covering my mouth – while his other hand slipped a silky blindfold over my eyes, and made the real world disappear.

After Care or Pillow Talk?

No matter what you call it, there’s nothing quite so delicious than the post humping cuddle and conversation – more so when there were new experiences. From bondage to spanking and some very creative use of clothes pins, I was floating. The 2nd time he asked what I was thinking, I told him the truth..

Next time I do this, someone else will be on the bottom.

Listen to – Ready To Spice Up Your Life w/ Bedroom BDSM?



MILF Mistress Vivian is Back Home!

MILF Mistress Returns From a Road Trip

MILF Mistress’ Welcome Home

Good Evening dear Readers. Your MILF Mistress Vivian is so happy to be Home! Ever get a wild hair and just pack up the car and head down the road? That’s what my dear submissive hubby and I did last week.

We trucked down south and visited with our kinky friends, miss pink and P Daddy, at The Round House. It was a perfect few days, deep in the woods – cocktailing on the 2nd story porch, and watching the fireflies. ~happy sigh~

I’ve missed y’all too – so you’ll notice that your favorite MILF will be easy to find for the next few days. Hoping your weekend was half as naughty as mine.  :)


Cuckold Husband Can’t Get Past The Pillow Talk Tease

Cuckold Husbands Try a little tenderness

Cuckold Wana-be Tries Some Sexy Pillow Talk

Hope y’all  had even 10 % of the fun we had this weekend,  over here at the Casa de Kinky. My cuckold husband and I had all kinds of kinky fun, trying out a few new CBT toys-  well into the shank of the day. No surprise why we are both moving so slow today – the cuckold’s slut ass is all techno-colored and me, I’m just flat out –  old.

Oh to be 40 again!

What is a Cuckold Husband?

There is no cut and dry answer to the question, what is a cuckold husband. Cuckolding is whatever you and your partner want it to be, real life hook-ups, or bedroom fantasy sex-play.

As a BDSM Fem Dom, and The Boss of my household, I’m a cuckold Mistress by default. In all the years that I’ve been a part of the BDSM lifestyle, I never heard the word cuckold spoken.

It wasn’t until I joined the whacky world of erotic phone entertainment, that I realized cuckolding was more than ancient Victorian word. It is a mindset, one that  takes my controls over the submissive’s sex life, and amplifies them.

What Types of Cuckolds Are There?

There are large cuckold communities across the US – with vibrant social circles. For many it is a more private affair, adding other players in as needed. However, for the majority – the kink doesn’t get much past the pillow talk.

No matter which type of cuckold you may be – remember …

it’s supposed to be sexy, naughty fun! Keep the lines of communication open, and if you can’t get past the pillow talk phase – I will advised you, as I did my newest cuckold phone sex fan … whisper to her how deserving she is of a Real man-sized cock.

If a Bartender slipped you a note from “the lovely MILF across the room”

After reading it, what would you do?

The Note Read



Cum Eating is Always Encouraged by Your MILF Mistress Vivian

Coached Cum Eating

Gobble Up Your Cum


Good Afternoon Cum Guzzlers! Are you an eager beaver when your Mistress encourages you to lap up your load? Or do you disregard my Command and just stare at the puddle of cum in the palm of your hand?

Encouragement is Paramount in Cum Eating .. Because he Who Hesitates is Lost

Old Miss Viv knows that for some of you cum eating man sluts, that first fistful of cum is daunting. Never mind that you’ve squirted jizz many a time down your date’s throat, but licking up your own cum, twists your brain. That’s where the encouragement comes in.

Don’t Just Stare at it or Else

Stop over thinking this – before the mess in your hand begins to solidify and in a very short time, it goes from cum that is creamy goodness to something more akin to rubber cement.

After all, it was you who said you wanted to please your Mistress – so Eat It already. No thinking, hand to mouth, in one big gulp. Gag if you must, I wouldn’t blame you – I can’t stand the goo myself.  But that isn’t the point, is it? The point is, you requested – more like begged –  for a coached Cum Eating Phone Sex Session.

Step up and Slurp the Sperm

Come on big boy, don’t be such a pussy. Sure it looks like you are hold a cup of cum, but in reality – it is not even a full tablespoon. Think it is going to taste gross? Well it is, so hedge your bets and make it tastier. Sweeten your sperm with a daily glass of apple juice! Pineapple works really well, and has many additional health benefits.

There are no tips or tricks that can encourage you more than remembering ….

In this as in all things – make your Mistress happy.

Listen to: Mistress Vivian Encourages You To Eat Your Cum




Mistress Vivian Says .. Sissy Gurl Let Some Sunshine in Your Life

Sissy Gurl!  Keep Your Sunny Side up!

Sissy Gurl!
Keep Your Sunny Side up!

Good Afternoon dear Sissy friends! When Sunday rolls around each week I have you, my sissy gurls  – on my mind. Maybe it is because Sundays are so mellow and lazy or it could be that on Sunday mornings, my darling sub hubby runs a bubble bath and serves coffee while I’m happily soaking. While the citrus fragrant wafts up and the hot water sooths me, I am content and hoping all the sissy gurls in the world – are starting their day with this delicious experience.

Here Comes the Sunshine Sissy Gurl!

I’ve been waiting for Texas to dry up all month, and today – At Last – is all blue skies and sunshine! While I sat on my stoop, sucking up the warmth,  it occurred to me that the lack of sunshine, has made me as pale as paper. And not in a good way. Once again my thoughts turned to y’all, and how so many keep their hidden feminine side locked away in the house. I understand why that happens, but Miss Viv is here to tell you — let some sunshine into your life.

The Benefits of Sunshine

For decades we have been preached at about the hazards of UVA radiation, but that can be countered with the use of a good sunscreen. Even if it is overcast, sun block is a must that should be part of your daily grooming – so we can enjoy all the excellent benefits the sun has to offer.  Did you know … ?

Unlike most essential vitamins that have to be ingested through food, Vitamin D from the sun,  is synthesized in the skin and benefits the liver and kidneys. A lack of Vitamin D can cause low bone density, weak muscles, MS and many other conditions. Sunshine and not supplements have been proven to be the most effective.

What Else Can Dose of Daylight  Do?

Just like a good romp in the hay, sunshine lowers blood-pressure, increase blood flow and heart rate and acts as an antioxidant.  Soaking up some rays can even help with not just “the blues” but can be advantageous for clinical depression and sleep disorders. Amazing isn’t it, what a bit on sunshine on your shoulders can do for health and attitude.

 The Benefits of Sunshine – Listen in

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Balls! Mistress Vivian Wants To Torment Your Nuts!

They Ain’t Your Balls No `Mo

Good Afternoon Fellow Kinksters!  Just the other day, I was conversing with one of my favorite young men who has been calling my phone sex line for more than a year. What makes him so special, is his love of having his balls tormented by his sexy . . . → Read More: Balls! Mistress Vivian Wants To Torment Your Nuts!